Why can't i name my child Christina?

Okay i am 27 weeks pregnant. I am married. I have decided to name my child Christina and my moms name so happens to be Christine. My husband thinks i am naming the baby after my mom. And i know i am not. I always grew up liking the name Christina seen i was 10 years old it is just such a beautiful name to me. When i say it i just smile and say that is just a beautiful name for a baby girl. My husband thinks it is not and wants to name the baby's middle name Patrice and his mom so happens to be patricia. He thinks we are trying to honor our parents and i not to be rude but i don't even like the name Christine which is my moms name. I love my mom but just not her name. I have cried constantly about this and have not spoken to him all day yesterday. I am mad because he thinks this is a competition to see who gets to have moms name. He even went as far as to keep telling me i will never change the diapers then if you want let me give her Patrice as a middle name. I am fed up with this y'all i am serious. This is going to be my only child. I have went through so much being pregnant. And i am tired of men thinking oh i have to have an input on the first child's name. Women have to go through so much. If it causes this much drama i will never have another child again it is not worth it. Why can't i name my first child christina and i don't want the middle name to be near his moms name. I have health problems and this does not make it any easier for me going through this pregnancy. I just want to make sure no one is going to think i am the best grandma and i get first dibs with everything. My mom knows my child is not named after her i told her that yesterday. I am just tired of this someone please help me. I don't want someone using my child. I really believe his mom wants the baby to have a name close to his and that is why it is causing so much trouble. I am just tired.